Jessica Rabbit, one of TV’s all time hot and original sexy animated sexual objects, Rodger Rabbit must of been a proud husband, and bad, bad wabbit.Lets face reality, a hot arse in a pair of cut off short’s does bring any guy’s flag pole to half mast, as he thinks of all those nasty things he would love to do to with that butt, in those short shorts, his fantasy is sitting right there staring him in the face.
The reality is, even us women when we see an attractive female, we all take a second look, first time, maybe our claws may be out as we have this alpha female thing going on, yet we will all look to admire a nice set of breasts, or a nice butt, before we come out with something nasty to make our selves feel somehow better that we may not have the same if not similar kind of looks, as the women we just found ourselves admiring.
Most women will or have at some point in their life fantasised about the feel of another females touch, as we wonder, what the forbidden fruit of this fantasy is like, the heat that it could and does bring, having a female touch, the erotic yet neuritic emotions that this fantasy stirs within our very souls.
As we push this thought back to the darkness of our minds, the forbidden zone, the do not look place, the do not go zone.
I wonder why we as females do this? is it embarrassment, fear? who knows what it is, but I can assure you that most of us women have kissed a girl in our lifetimes, and if we are honest with ourselves, we liked it.
After all sexual pleasure is the natural drug……..that euphoric drug we all love…………..mmmm
“There is a secret about human love that is commonly overlooked:
Receiving it is much more scary and threatening than giving it.
How many times in your life have you been unable to let in someone’s love or even pushed it away?
Much as we proclaim the wish to be truly loved, we are often afraid of that, and so find it difficult to open to love or let it all the way in.” ~ John Welwood
Most of us are not talented receivers when it comes to love.
Whether or not we are able to give love has surprisingly little to do with its polar opposite of being able to open to the love coming towards us.
We refuse the love we say we want when we complain about the packaging it arrives in.
We refuse the lover we say we want when we blame them for what they are not.
We refuse the love and the lover we say we want when we justify our refusal in the storylines of anger, guilt and inadequacy.
In fact, most people when pushed to the edge of their refusal to receive love will admit to what may be the most painful universal wound of all – the belief that underneath it all we don’t deserve the love we say we want.
Learning how to let in the love that is constantly around us, coming towards us, yielding to our asking hearts is perhaps the only lesson worth mastering.
It begins with establishing your own worth as the centre of your existence.
Imagining yourself as a worthy container of love and patching the cracks that leak out the essence of our lovability is an inside job.
The repairs are worth the effort, as our willingness to witness and experience the painful recognition of our own beliefs fall away.
We are in fact innately capable of receiving and transmuting the love that comes towards us.
In intimate relationships this inability to receive love is most acutely witnessed in the significant incidence of sexual dysfunction and its collateral damage to the experience of orgasm.
Millions of people, both men and women, suffer from conditions that impact their ability to receive and experience pleasure.
There is a lot of forgiving that needs to happen around most people’s sexuality.
Whether from unhelpful messaging about what our sexuality means about us or the bad choices most of us make on the way to figuring our sexuality out, we live within a wounded culture of sex that publicly swings widely between the prudish “just say no” and the endless hookup.
Forgiving ourselves and loving the wounded places in us is perhaps the most essential leap we can commit to in opening up a path to permitting ourselves sexual pleasure.
Exploring our sexuality from this perspective offers one of the most tender and gratifying practices available to us.
This idea occurred to me not long ago when I was in the midst of experiencing my own passion.
I understood in a visceral way just how deeply our capacity for arousal is actually the most profoundly embodied experience of receiving love available to us.
What keeps most of us from sliding down this fast moving chute into a pleasure delirium is our inability to receive and feel worthy of the pleasure that lives within us.
So, take a risk with your heart and begin in the bedroom.
Abandon your need to control the outcome, allow yourself moments of naked vulnerability and experience how unpredictable and healing human touch can be.
Receiving physical love from your partner is a true investment, which not only changes the cycle of giving and receiving in your relationship but allows pleasure to move through us and transform us.
Most if not the whole of my life I have been deemed as high maintenance, this tends to fuck me off, as high maintenance people are the likes of the diva’s such as Paris Hilton, those girls who have to have their nails done at the latest nail salon, with decals of fluffy dogs stuck on nine inch tips, nose jobs, and bleach their roots to the ultra-maximum shade they choose to use that week.
Me high fucking maintenance? No I think not, considering I cut my nails with the nail clippers, not my fault they grow the way they do into an almost perfectly manicured shape, I cut my jeans to make shorts when I am hot, and I certainly cannot the remember the last time I went to see any bimbo fucking hair dresser, because of my talent to cut and dye my own fucking hair.
I don’t have a dog that I carry around in a god damn guchi bag, in fact I don’t even own a guchi bag full stop, my clothes do not have designer labels on them and until recently I didn’t know who kelvin fucking cline was.
My sun glasses are whatever I grab off the $5 rack, and makeup I refuse to pay the bullshit prices that they ask for when buying the Maybelline floorless look, at $50 for the primer which you have to have before you apply the concealer (price unknown) then the flawless finish of the foundation (again price in total unknown) they had me stopped and lost for words at primer and $50.
Who in this world apart from a painter uses fucking primer?
Much less primer on their faces?
My god, I roll my eyes at the money women will pay to think they look like the latest Loral advert, with their long wearing ultra-thick mascara for lashes that last and last, if only you could hear my sarcasm as I type those very words.
There is bling and then there is an over kill of bling some people guys included just do not have a clue about when the fuck to stop.
Big thick chains hanging off their necks that look like the chain that comes off the bath plug, bloody pants that hang down around their butts and boxer shorts hanging out meanwhile barbie next to him has her 50’s style sun glasses on, hair blonde, almost white pined back stuck down to the side, and her face painted with flawless fucking foundation, her earrings look like something a bird could and should balance on, and she has these shoes on that she can hardly stand on much less walk herself down the road in. (stilts)
I sigh as I walk past this king of fashion exclusive knowing that it is their mummies and daddies money or theirs who keeps those shitty little business’s out there pumping music out of their store like they were a god damn night club, as these kids go into them in packs to buy the latest whatever it is that is fashion this week (incidentally I wore it in the 80’s and threw it away as I have a mini heart attack at the price tag attached to what I used as a dust cloth), before these little Paris Hilton and Justin beiber want to be kind of kids go get a mini manicure, a total pedicure, or a fucking massage.
All this in a day out, finally finishing up with a latte, with their gay friend before daddy picks them up at 6pm.
Well I think it is safe to conclude that I am not high maintenance at all, in fact I am the opposite all I ask for out of life is a roof over my head, nicotine and caffeine. Not too much to ask for if you want my opinion.
Got to love this, took a quiz on the internet about me answered the thing as accuratly as you can given the 3 choices you get or however many it may be per particular question and this is the result:
You’re a Harmonizer
We’ve taken your quiz answers and combined them with the latest psychological research and most innovative personality profiling software in the world to create a comprehensive understanding of who you are and what makes you tick.
So who are you?
Get ready to find out …
You’re a Harmonizer. Loyal and honest, you’re generous with your time and know how to be a true support to your friends. You value one-on-one time with your inner circle and have a few very special friends you can truly rely on.
Reliable and trustworthy, you seek harmony and balance in your life. You forge strong, long-lasting friendships, and your friends really value your honesty and frank opinions. You may prefer routine and security to lots of new experiences.
Right now, you feel a little lost and that life could go one way or the other. However this uncertainty can be a positive way of taking a look at what you’d really like to do and making that change…or it could be that you discover you are happy just where you are!
When it comes to improving things in your life, who would say no to extra cash? It would be great to be able to treat the family whenever you feel like it. The trick is to be disciplined about budgeting. If you stay on top of your finances, you’ll feel a lot more secure and probably save a bit too.
Have you ever written a list of your positive features or asked your friends to do the same? It’s a great exercise and it might just surprise you. As a Harmonizer, it’s important to learn to trust your intuition and to know that everything will work out for the best. Learn to say yes to new experiences from time to time. Your confidence and self-belief will grow and grow. Sometimes a challenge or a change of scene could be just the thing you need.
You like to have regular quiet time to listen to your inner voice. Being alone in the open air is a great chance for you to connect to what really matters. Make sure you don’t neglect your spiritual needs and carve out some me-time as often as you can.
You’re quite satisfied that you get things done during your day, but are you reaching your full potential?
Ability isn’t holding you back. You have the skills to do a great job and that allows you to keep your eye on the ball, but you might need to find a way to motivate yourself if you want to be more successful.
As a harmonizer your awareness of all the different elements involved in a situation means that you have the potential to be a driving force when it comes to making things happen. But you need the inspiration of others to keep things exciting. It might feel like your opinions are overly critical, but voicing them will allow people to understand where you’re coming from.
You could be trying harder, but enthusiasm doesn’t come from nowhere, and focussing too much on tasks that you’re not comfortable with can create unnecessary stress. You need the most urgent tasks to be clearly defined so that you know what to concentrate on. If they aren’t at the moment then don’t be afraid to ask people to help you work on it, they will appreciate your organisation. A plan can keep you grounded, but don’t be afraid to think outside the box sometimes. Try not to be too quick to reject ideas that seem unusual, change can be refreshing.
At times it can feel like you’re not given the opportunity to use your talents, but you are pretty good at staying on task, and that will help you develop new skills. It’s not worth worrying about things you can’t change. Don’t forget that once you get the important things done you will have more time to focus on your real passion.
You’ve definitely got a playful streak. For you, being in love is about having fun and enjoying life. Sharing lots of laughs is the best way to keep things fresh.
As a Warm Heart, you’re very down-to-earth when it comes to love.
Often it is the simplest pleasures that bring the greatest joy.
For you, romance often evolves from a close friendship.
You want a love that feels safe and secure and believe in building strong foundations based on trust and understanding.
You are a deeply loyal person and you expect the same from your partner.
A true relationship is about committing to share your life and leaning on each other in good times and bad.
Quiet one-on-one time is important too.
You like to dive in and get lost together in those magical feelings.
- Keep the magic alive in a relationship by spending quality time doing something that you’ll both enjoy.
- Be bold. Don’t feel that there’s some perfect ideal that you need to live up to. You are an amazing individual. Celebrate that yourself and you’ll quickly find that you’re not the only one who thinks so.
- Do something different. Rent roller skates and wobble around the park hanging out to one another for balance!
- You like to be able to treat yourself every now and then. You have a passion for fashion, so you would love to be able to indulge in a shopping trip whenever the mood strikes!
- When it comes to success, you’re balanced and focused – your glass tends to be half full and you’re always happy for a top up! You see life as a marathon rather than a sprint, and tend to think in terms of long term goals. You put lots of effort into everything you do, and get a great sense of fulfilment from the results. Dedicated and committed, don’t forget to let your hair down every now and again – a little treat is just what you deserve!
Mornings aren’t exactly your best time of the day.
You definitely need a serious caffeine hit to get you firing on all cylinders! But there’s no question that health wise, you’re on the right track.
Woulda Coulda Shoulda just isn’t in your vocabulary.
You’ve learnt that if you want to feel great, you need to make the positive steps yourself.
It’s all about valuing yourself enough to take the time to what’s best for you and your body. You like exploring alternative therapies and the holistic side of things.
The real key is keeping your energy balanced – no sugar highs or caffeine crashes. It’s all about having a twinkle in your eye and embracing every minute of the day.
You’re a real endorphin junkie and nothing beats exercise to make you look and feel fantastic.
You have excellent reserves of energy and live life at a fast pace.
Anything else would feel like slow motion.
You probably grab every opportunity to do a little extra exercise – walking up escalators, jogging home from the store… And if you don’t get your heart rate up regularly you can end up feeling like a bit of a slob.
Just be careful that you don’t get too obsessed.
No-one wants to hear how many sit-ups you’ve done!
Outwardly what appears can be an illusion of sorts a mask one we all have and one we all have learned to wear and wear it well.
For most people looking in on me Angel, they see someone who is open minded (for the most part) who is opinionated, and they see strength.
For the Angel looking outside at the rest of the world that seems to have its constant peering eyes looking her way, she is shy, she is not always the strong person that the rest of the world may see, and she is also a person who is private when it comes to her inner self and feelings.
What think that they know Angel, when the reality is there is very few and selected people who know me personally.
This is through choice, my choice, as I do not choose to go out and broadcast to the world my every move, my every bowel motion and my inner most private thoughts that race at times through my mind.
I do what you all do, and share what parts of my life, my world that I choose to make public knowledge.
Yet for some reason, whatever the reason may be, people out there have a way of turning what you choose to share into some sort of epic fucking adventure, using your words as they want them to read, making your words into something they wish to see, as they run with their tabloid version of what you have chosen in the first place to share.
I have concluded that no way no how would I wish to be any kind of famous person who lives in the public eye, and is watched by reporters from behind bushes, jesus bloody Christ, this cannot be any fun for those poor bastards out there that for whatever reason we have chosen to look up to, to have as our role models per say.
They cannot even go down the street without finding a heard of people coming out of literally nowhere, who are screaming out their names.
That is not my idea of living nor is it my idea of life full stop, bloody hell, I could not imagine nor want to imagine the life of someone like Sharon Stone, or Madonna, dear god they must be going insane on the inside, as they find their worlds with no privacy, they are expected to be some image that we the public have created or allowed this person to create for themselves, which this person has to somehow live up to each and every day.
It makes me wonder if we are really as desperate as a species that we need to cling onto and suffocate any or everything that we see to be possibly something that we like or admire.
We have to hold onto whatever it is that we think will make our lives somehow better give us this image of happiness that we have created in our minds, and made ourselves think happy should be, as we clutch literally at straws.
For some out there they will find that within the demons lurking in substance abuse, they reach that level of contentment, even if this content happy high is one that is chemically induced, they have still come to the point that they have met their high of highs, regardless of what and who their chase for the ultimate buzz is doing to those around them, or how it affects their view on how they see themselves.
What the hell, the person who sees themselves is after all looking through the rose colored glasses that the chemicals have produced, they can and do see themselves as whoever and whatever their brain desires, they have captured this momentary sense of grandeur in an instant and it has come in the form of drug or alcohol abuse.
Fuck tomorrow live for today live in the high, and forget about the come down frown of tomorrow and just how bad that come down hurts as you hit rock bottom.
Then there is those out there who think that there will be some resolve in religion in god, as I think each to their own.
Not forgetting those who use the natural high we create from the erotic pleasure we gain from sexual encounters, as our brains release the serotonin’s of ecstasy as we fall into the world of seductive pleasure, feeling lust as it races through our bodies, passion in the heat of our euphoric moments, and heat like no other.
For me well me I am simply Angel, just a girl like any other, trying to get through each day as it comes, trying to deal with the shit as it hits the fan, and simply live my life the best way I know how to.
Females so simple yet so complex, with soft skin, and our gentle yet beautiful curves which are built to attract members of the opposite sex.
Our child bearing hips, with our complex way of thinking, our giggles, and our touch, our smell and our taste all unique, all so sensual all simply divine.
Females the vision of what is called complicated beauty.
Like a fine vase that must be held with the perfect pressure, to ensure it does not crack to ensure that it stays safe, the same applies to women of all ages, shapes and races.
We enjoy to be touched, to be teased, and we love to be pleased, as we sigh, and we pout, and we giggle and flick our hair from side to side, we flirt, and we know this, we want yet we somehow shy away when it comes to the direct subject of what we want.
On average a female thinks about sex at least 34 times in a day, we fantasize about tongues, fingers, kissing, and being intimate with our lovers, or a complete stranger, we lust as much as men do however we don’t admit this to a soul.
Our GSpots are not the easiest to find, yet when you find it, its fucking majestic, for a female to orgasm.
If you ladies out there are yet to experience this truly wonderful feeling of free flowing hotness, then I suggest you start to explore your bodies, find what feels good, how you like to touch yourselves in order to tell your partner how to take you to a world that is beyond words.
As you feel your body quiver all over, as your nipples stand more erect than you had ever thought they could, feeling your muscles in your hot wet, mounds, clench around his finger his tongue or his hard member.
In order to teach somebody something ladies out there who are fantasising who are wanting who are aching; you must first learn the lesson you wish to have another perfect.
I suggest finding yourself somewhere quite, as you slide you moist panties to the side, and begin to investigate, that fluttering feeling you get from time to time, somewhere you won’t be distracted or interrupted, as you begin your journey of self-exploration.
Let your hearts speed up with excitement, as you begin to enjoy your own bodies, breath, feel, rub, and massage.